The Kikay Loot!

Over the years, my perception on staying presentable and looking good has change. I still believe that through the years, "simplicity is beauty" and I still live up on being simple on my clothes and stuff. But being a career girl, someone who loves to travel a lot and move around, it is important that I still take care of myself and how I look to others. I read a lot of articles in Cosmo magazines that one secret power on being promoted on work or being respected is how you project your image in a positive way. So for this new entry of mine and a little peek into my vanity kits, here are some of the list of my current kikay loots and stuff that made out most of my cluttered room. :)



For my skin, I am quite a hoarder of scented lotions and body butter. I also like scented oils for moisturizing. For lotion I always use Nivea Angel Star Pink and Victoria's Secret lotions. I love these two for everyday use because the scent still lingers even after office hours. For rainy days, I use Neutrogena Body oil for moisturizing. I also use Body Shop's body butter in Cherry flavor and Watson's Bella body butter in Strawberry and Cinnamon. For moisturizing my face, I use Nivea day cream and for removing unwanted blackheads, I use the Pore Remover from Saizen. It keeps my skin smooth and glowing. For hair I use, Citre Shine hair spray for making my hair more manageable and free from tangle. I also like traveling a lot and doing stuff outdoors so I always put sunblock on my body and face. This prevents UV exposure especially during summer days.


For body spray and perfumes, I am not keen on high-priced perfumes but it is quite obvious that I love Victoria's Secret various body sprays and scents. Most of these were gifts for me. From left to right, here are the list of my favorite scents:

1. Guess Pink - a present from my HS friend when she went to Hongkong

2. Clinique Happy - my dad bought this for me when we were shopping at DutyFree

3. Victoria's Secret Shimmering Spray Charming and Fun - a gift from my aunt/godmother when she went home from US

4. Victoria's Secret Shimmering Spray Cool and Calm - also a gift from my aunt/godmother

5. Victoria's Secret Almost Nude Body Spray - a gift from Ni

6. Victoria's Secret Pink -also a gift from Ni

7. Elizabeth Arden Green Tea perfume - I bought this from Hongkong. It was on sale ;)

8. Cute DKNY Be Delicious perfume sets - a gift from my dad when he went to New York.



I also have my own cute make-up kit with basic list of essentials. I am not much into make up but I want to learn the basics. I noticed that since I attend quite a few number of formal parties in the past, going to salons for make-up can be expensive. So what I did is collect few reliable pieces of make-ups and use them when certain need arises. Here are some of my essential list:

1. Maybelline Clear Smooth Liquid foundation - If your skin is smooth and fair, you don't need to buy concealers not unless there are few blemishes on your face that needs to be covered

2. Maybelline Make Up remover - I use this after the event or parties before washing up my face to remove the eye makeups and foundation.

3. Maybelline Coral Blush on

4. Mac Nude Shimmer and Maybelline Red Lipstick

5. Maybelline Volume Express Mascara

6. Lipgloss from Ilog Maria, Jo Malone Vitamin E, My Lovely Lipbalm by H&M (which I brought from Hongkong)

7. Eye shimmers and shadows from LA colors, Etude House and Body Shop

8. Ellana Mineral Make ups such as Coral blush on, Blue eye shadow and powder foundation

9. Make up brushes for eyes, face and cheeks.




My one weakness also is aside from splurging for massages is having a foot massage or spa. I love wearing peep-toes shoes and flip-flops so I always like to put color on my toenails. When I'm on the house, I put different nail polishes and over the time, the nail polishes piled up so I had no choice but to put it in a separate storage. My housemates often tease me about it that I looked like doing a home service because of my nail polishes. And see my feet below for my wacky nail polish experiment :P



My wacky foot which just came out from a fish spa experience in Iloilo! :)

And for the final touch here are the rest of my kikay loot!






One my clothes closet that are about to explode, accessories, my kikay loot basket and my favorite book by Jane Buckingham, "Modern Girls Guide to Life" :)

My Dreamboard...

It's been a while since the last time I filled up entries on my so-called secret blog. Yep its secret because few people know it. I am not the type who flaunts everything I write or read or watch. As much as possible I want to keep my identity private so that I would be able to live in peace and write my heart's content without hesitations.

There's so many happenings around me and I am really not sure how to enumerate or put them into thoughts that would clearly define them in my entries. For my today's entry I decided to put up my dreamboard in my room. Just a few while ago, I was busy sorting out stuff in my room and been putting some things in their respective places since I left it in mess before going overseas. I just checked my dreamboard which I wrote down last year that I want to visit Hongkong, Macau, Australia and other local places I haven't been to.

I know it sounds silly but most people I knew already went to Hongkong and Macau. I've been to Singapore last year on a solo flight trip on my first out of the country experience and I find it memorable and eye-opener. But right now seeing that you already fullfilled one of your dreams, which is visiting Hongkong with your someone special is much memorable and fun. I used to think Disneyland is just a dream... here it is already fullfilled and experienced. I used to see commercials of Hongkong Disneyland in National Geographic and Discovery channels. I used to say that someday I'm going to visit my childhood dreams and cartoon characters I grew up with. Now I already done it and experienced a new different level of happiness. It was very special because last year I was putting it as a future travel destination in my dream board. I already fullfilled two. And I still need to visit different places...

For my next post in my dreamboard, here are some of the places I want to visit and things I want to do:

1. Visit Vietnam and Cambodia
2. Visit South Korea and experience the snow :)
3. Visit Bangkok and Kota Kinabalu
4. Go back to Hongkong and shop for Marc Jacobs and lots of Longchamp tote bags! (bag-a-holic mode) and also shop for dresses at H&M and other outlet boutiques
5. Euro-trip!
6. A nice house for my future family
7. A SUV care
8. my secret dream in Iloilo... :)

In due time I know I will be able to do this.

Another Valentines Post! (pagbigyan na please)

(The picture above reminds me of my favorite scene in the movie)

This is another Valentines post of walang magawa moment after watching 500 days of Summer. As you know every Valentines season most cable channels shows all movies, segments, soaps and commercial pertaining to the love month. Tonight, after my Dad got tired of watching the replay of the uber-boring impeachment trial he handed me the remote and I tried doing the channel surfing. I saw that the 500 days of Summer is shown in StarMovies so I watched it again. Though I watched the movie a dozen times, can't help but feel sad for Tom... affected ako eh (bruhang Summer, ayaw pa kay Tom). But what captured my attention is what Tom's sister told about failed relationship or love... You're too blind to see before the indications that there's no love or care in what your previous partner does. Maybe Tom misinterprets the actions Summer shown to him. Tom lives in a dream that there is destiny and fate, while Summer relies on being practical on choosing which would be best for her. It might not be a happy ending for Tom and Summer but there are always lessons learned in love and life... especially on movies like these :P

Tom's sister might be young but her view on things about love is quite mature. Sometimes when we are blinded by love we ignore small things that might indicate that something is wrong in relationship. We only realize the faults and mistakes in the relationship when it is already over. Failed relationships might be seen as waste of time and mistakes of the past but what's important is the lessons it carved in our minds and hearts. As they say, practice makes perfect. Make sure that you don't fall to the trap of same mistakes again...

What's so romantic about my 2nd Valentines post? Nothing? Just thoughts to ponder and a bit enjoyment of having to watch rom-coms... I haven't watch for a while due to busy schedules and appointments... :)

Happy Valentines!

Love is in the air and it's what romantic people are looking forward during February - Valentines day. For hopeless romantics this day define all efforts to be the most romantic person ever. Ever since I am not a fan of this day. Though I've been in relationships during and after college... I don't know, it just so happened that my exes are not fans of Valentines day so you would expect that none of them sent me a flowers or any of the cheesy stuff before. I just get used to the idea that Valentines is just an ordinary day to me... I received few Valentines cards and stuff toys in the past but none of them flowers or any surprises.

This year was quite different... this is the first time that I received flowers (yes, you hear it right!) and had a nice dinner after office. It's quite chaotic going out on a Valentines day since fine dining restaurants and even fast foods are filled up with people (either dating or just having ordinary dinner) so expect that it's an effort to queue up / order and then find a nice table to sit. I had to admit that I do have few ounce of patience left when it comes to big crowds and traffic. But today, this is the first Valentines date that I get to enjoy the day. Ni (my significant other) already gave me the flowers last night and the sweet gesture touched me. I know it sounds so shallow by other people who's used on getting flowers every Valentines day. For me, this is different. This is the first time that my special someone get out of his way to show how much he truly loves me on this special day. I used to remember in high school that I get envious of my other girl classmates who got flowers and cards during Valentines and I was secretly hoping someone would gave me one (hahaha! those were the days...). I am quite grateful and thankful that in this age of mine and 12 years after high school I got one special set of pink flowers and spent the night with my special someone who mean the world to me and looks forward on a journey of forever with him... So just this once, it may be as cheesy and sugary as jawbreaker candy, I just want to greet my special someone...

Happy Valentines Ni!




For me, they are the beautiful flowers in my life and thank you for this :)

Broken Glass

From: http://www.myemospace.com

This is one of the life-changing decisions I made in my life… Pardon me for my late post.



I know in myself that I am independent. But there were times I feel lost and confused. Lost because I feel like I don't have someone in my life who will take good care of me, that it took me a while to find which direction in life I am heading and confused because I really didn't know what to do with my life if I'm going to end my relationship.

From: deviantarttattoosgirls.blogspot.com

I must admit after the break up it left me into broken pieces… but it wasn't as painful like what I felt last January and February 2011. I know earlier this year that things have fell apart and changed but I am too afraid to admit that we cannot fix things the way they should be. And I am living in denial that some issues and problems we encountered last year cannot be resolved in just a few days or months. I know for the past 7 months I've been trying to hold on to broken shards of glass which is the representation of our fragile relationship. No matter how much I tried to fix and glue the pieces, the glass won't come back in its true form and those broken pieces I tried to patch left me wounded as ever. It hurts to see someone you used to loved cry at the very thought of ending things together. But it will be much worse if I still try to hold on knowing the truth that there would be no "us" in the future. I got so scared when he admitted to me that as of this moment there are no plans and goals for us. Only excuses and false hopes just to ward off the fear of losing our relationship… It hurts because the love you nurtured for years has fallen apart. It hurts because the promises and dreams you built were just castles in the sand. It hurts because the words he hurled at me during our endless arguments left me questioning our relationship and its value. It hurts because no matter how much I tried to see the light of things for us, I know that I am just delaying my burdens to ease the pain. Those delays did not help me and it just carry on for so many months that reached into my saturation and breaking point.

I am sad but relieved. Sad because I know there would be a special place for him in my heart which contains our glorious memories together. In those 6 years we've been together we also built friendship and connections. But I need to make a heart-wrenching decision. Decision that would help me move forward and start another chapter of my life. I feel relieved, because I know that I did the right decision which is to find my true happiness. Start my life with new hopes and promises. Dreams that is not built in sand castles but on sturdy rock which is a foundation for the better future. As I closed this chapter in my life, I want to start my life in a dreams that became reality and embrace the future with a smile and forgot the tears that fell from my eyes saying goodbye.

Friendster is Closing Down.... or should I say Upgrading..

How do I react when I heard the news that Friendster is closing their site? Well, to be honest I was a little bit lonely since it was the first social networking site I joined in. I remembered that I joined Friendster around February 2004, just after finishing my college degree. I didn't even know my own personal reason why I created an account, maybe during that time nakikiuso ako at nagpapaka-feeling teenager :P. But on a serious note, Friendster helped me locate my long-lost friends and relatives, keep in touch with my closest friends, talk to my students and found out how my ex-bf cheated on me (hahaha, nagpaka-hacker?!)... in a way Friendster strenghtened my relationship with friends and family, except for ex-bf. hahaha. (Uy move on na!)

Even though Facebook has overtaken Friendster because of its cool features, simplicity and keeping well-connected with friends and relatives, I still maintain an account in Friendster and one of the reasons is because I love reading my friends' testimonials about me. I used to remember that me and my friends liked to exchange testimonials and quotes with each other because it was fun leaking secrets and describing each other. Yung iba nga bago ko bigyan ng testimonial, pinag isipan ko talaga ng matagal bago ko isulat yung mga best traits nila. Pero minsan di ko pa rin maiwasan na hindi sila ilaglag or ibuking. Hahaha.

So since FS is going to erase old testimonials and photos, I keep some of memorable testimonials from my friends, classmates and students gave to me. And to be honest it was fun reminiscing them :)

Here are some of my favorite testimonials:
From KRL:

Last night a friend forwarded a text message to me, It was a simple heart
warming message my friends are my medicine when I'm in pain, my letter when I'm
far, my smile when I'm sad, my hanky when I cry, and my life when I die.. Thanks
for being one... C_____ has been one great friend. She knows why, I don't need
to explain to the world why. You should find out for yourself what I am talking
about. She is a tough shoulder you can lean on. Open minded and willing to
compromise, you can share many things with her without apprehensions, she'll
tell you things you wouldn't expect she'll tell (or probably things you expected
but really don't want to hear), but as they say, true friends are the ones who
will tell you the things you need to know no matter how hurtful it may sound. As
I am struggling, I learned that she can be your heart when you are numb, she'll
lend you her ears to listen, she is a clown to make you smile. Thank you for
being a great friend

From my Grad School classmate AS:

This is ___: Beautiful, sexy, Intelligent, eloquent, always likes to share herideas. Wide-reader kasi.Serve her seafoods, she'll be delighted. You can invite her to your province, isama nyo na rin ako hah. Sarap maging kaibigan si C.
Good luck, C. Sana marating mo lahat ng nais mong marating. God bless you.
always remember: "We love you"

From my college friend MJM:

Hello 'C',.. whats up? Hows life any way? hehe,.. Well all i know about heris... She's nice, pretty and very intelligent person. and now she's taking her
masteral and i wish you goodluck C i know you can make it, ikaw pa',....
hehe,...Anyways wherever you are right know i wish you goodluck, goodhealth and
goodlove',... Ok see you around sometime friend,... U

From my Eng'g student EDR:

Hi miss... remember me??? ahehehe! wala lang nakita ko lang un pic mo and bigla kita namis...well guyz! naging prof ko to sa AMA binan Da' Best to magturo bukod sa cute siya kaya masarap makinig eh hanep talaga magturo... tipopng kahit tulog ka mapapaginipan mo un tinuro niya... harharhar! isa to sa mga nagutuhang prof
ko sa AMA when i was in first year.. Una palang 2 thumbs up na ko dito and also
magaling din xa makisama with her students.. napaka down to earth nitong taong
to at feeling ko laging masya ang mundo niya know y guyz?? kasi walang araw na
di nakangiti yan! SMILING FACE ika nga! hehehe! Miss, miss na namin keo...pede
talaga keong tandem ni miss mich pareho kayong 'da best! let me give you a
salute! "YOU'RE THE BEST!" miss... Ingat po lage! and godbless you always for
being a nice and wonderful person...See yah!

From my HS friend LP:

Sexy talaga nating tatlo, lalo na kapag nakatalikod!!! Hehehe!! Sama ka ulit?
Hahaha!!! Miss kna nila mamy, kaw daw c bestfriend!!! hahaha!! Wla daw cla radyo
dun!

hmmm. syempre sweet yan,kta nman sa name eh.sister ko yan since
grde 1,nung nagaway kmi.hehehe.friendly,maingay kya lgi kming npapaglitan,mkulit
at higit sa lahat...pareho kmi lagi ng crush.. haaay buti nlang d p kmi
nagkakapreho ng bf...iyakin yan lalo na pagdting sa ....secret.. mdling
istorbohin at hgilpin kc alm n alm k hide out nyan! matalino pero hindi
pasensyosa!! promise ... parang wild animal pag nagalit.. kaya boys wag nyong
gagalitin yan.. mkamandag yan!!! mis yah!!

From my another HS friend IL:

helooo! photos u posted love it! ur right wlang panget n picture evrything willbe posted kelan kya next trip hope to fly with the two of u again. Im glad u shared ur birthday with us. Luv u! Muah

we jz had a bonding yesterday yet miss q n kyo take care alwyez i am really thankful to have u as my friends. Ooops! gling ah! pics are posted agad. Love u! Muah!

From my office friend MR:

I really miss this girl ! C is a jolly type of person kaya nga I luv to hangout
with her, she's a very nice person inside and out, physically she's beautiful
(as in Korean beauty) and sexy (khit n malakas kumain hehehe), she has a strong
personality that can influence anybody, she's independent and smart, she knows
how to make u laugh when u'r sad, she's a good listener and a good adviser. What
I lyk bout this girls is that she's a true friend and thoughtful, kya lhat ng
friend niya luv din cya, keep it up C! Miss u so much =)

hi C! Tnx 4 inviting me last sunday! I really luvd ur "Pacham Pasta" ur a better cook dan me im juz following ur footsteps hehehe... cge po s uulitin =)

i really love this girl coz she's full of enery pag ksama mo sya d kau mwwlan ng pag-uusapan & she's also supportive as a friend, m so hapi 4 what she is now coz she deserve it =) Luv u C!

bout C, shes cute, sexy & smart inggit me kc khit lakas kumain d nataba. Shes really fun to be with, gud listener at mhilig s food juz lyk me, hehe kya mgksundo kmi nyan e. Mrming kming gus2ng gwin ng mgksama gaya ng plano nming mgMasteral,
mgShopping, kumain s Japanese Restaurant, mgBar etc so far wla p n22pad hehe but its ok kc continuous nman bonding nmin s KFC. Dmi kong mmimiss d2 f ever n
mgkhiwalay kmi someday. TC!

From my Eng'g student MJ:

ah...cnu to...?! c mam c...naku ang super duper kulit nameng prof date sa
ama...hai...miss na kita...hehe well to tell you honestly guyz...c mam c...super
duper bait nito as in...ang sarap kasama...kahit na student niya lang
kame...she's like an older sister to me...sobrang sweet...ang sobrang
cute...tignan nio nalang xa...hehe..well ang galing nito sa computer...wahahaha....tsaka ang taas magbigay ng grade nung nasa ama pa xa...magbestfriend nga sila ni mam mitch...ang galing magbigay ng advices at sobrang easy-to-go with...and fun to be with... well as i have read...matakaw ka pla...hindi kasi halata...hehehe...ang slim ng body mo unlike me...tumataba na talaga...hehehe... mam...secret lang natin ung mga sinabi ko sayo ha...as in lahat...hehehe...miss yah...love you.. tsaka nga pala mam...thanks po talaga salahat...nxt tym ung continuation nito…

From my dear college friend KC:

c C.. sya ang genius ng tropa nmin! cpag nyan mag-aral nung college kme (til now nman eh).. leader kng leader! sweet, dependable, bait (hirap nga nyan
impluwensyahan minsan eh!).. ang lakas nga lng ng boses khit san, prang lagi
kyong magkalayo magkausap! pro yan c C mdali po yang msaktan & minsan
madadala ka tlaga sa knya pg umiiyak.. kc mpagmahal yan c C eh, she's willing to
offer everything she can s mga taong luv nya (ay with few exemptions pla..) kya
daming friends din yang tropa kong yan eh! tnx 4d friendship! luv u po cheepy!!!
=)

From my CS student RC:

well wala me talaga masabi pag dating sa kanya! she is one of my favorite
instructor promise!!!!! cguro kung magkakaroon man ako ng girl frend gusto ko
yung tulad nya, she is the type of person na for keeps talaga!!! alam nyo kung
bakit? mabait na super cute pa! weakness ko mga chinita!!! ahihihi!!! well
seriously masarap ka kwentuhan cool sya sobra, nahihiya na nga ako minsan
graduate na kasi sya ako di pa hehehehe!!!! pero ok lang kung grumaduate ako
agad malamang di ko na sya nakilala, at isa pa wag nyu galitin mataray yan,
minsan na late ako sa quiz di na inulit ung number 1, pero ok lang lesson sa
akin yun hehehe! so yung mga nag babalak na mag pa late, mag dalawang isip na
kayu, baka matapos ang karir nyu hehehe!!!, well all i can say is!!! more power
stay cool and stay as cute as you are. Chow!!!!

From my college classmate WB:

Hey C-mint! She can be compared to a nerd's brain in a sexy, foxy lady. Sobrangsmart at lumalaban when her ideas and principles are correct. Hope to see you
soon C! I hope hindi ka kinakatakutan sa AMA, hehehe. LOL. Cheers to us all!

Hi Miss C-mint, Sya na ngayon ang pumalit na terror pagdating sa mga
Thesis defense. At sya na rin ang bagong Terror ng AMA. joke. hehehe. This girl
is really witty, we use to have a n EDUCATIONAL ARGUMENT about things that can both enlighten our knowledge about certain things. I know that she will continue
to be the most competitive person and her perseverance can let her go places in
the Industry. Hoope to see you soon, 50 cent C-mint.

From a college professor:

C's one of the coolest girl I have ever met. I have been seeing a lot of C before, but that was when she was still a student. Yup, payat na siya before
until now. He He He. Sabi niya, suwerte daw sila because there was never a
chance na naging panelist nila ako. He He He. Threatening ba ako? Magaling kasi
silang pumili ng room. I get to work with her early this school year, she's with
Rona who was my batchmate. Masaya kasama si C. I can say that she's to be
considered as one of the boys. Game yan, lalo na sa biruan. That's what I admire
about this girl, kahit medyo suplada eh, she can blend in perfectly. Looks can
be deceiving, she's really slim but her appetite's really good. Di ba Mitch?
Lagi kayong may date sa Wendy's? He He He. Too bad I left the organization, di
ko na siya makukulit more often. But one thing is good, we remain friends. Sana
makatikim ulit ako ng vegerroni (anu nga ulit ang tawag nina sir parreo dun? he
he he) mo. Good luck sa career C!

From my HS classmate and ka-batch JD:

HEy guyz check this out!!!! who's this girl na sobrang kalog pero san ka astig talino??how about this!!! who's this girl who have a cute eyes na kung tumawa e
wala ka nang makita sa mata nya...hmmp lam nyo na? well e2 pa..Closer Closer..
Who's this girl na naging best in academic namin nung HS ...RAPHAELIAN ROCKZ...
ALAM NYO NA!! well kung di nyo talga kilala.. PWES problema nyo na yun.. dami ko ng binigay na clue.. grabe na…

From my HS classmate RC (who also passed away na :():

Si C lagi syang naka- smile,mapagbigay sya ung laging ng hingian ng face powder at baby cologne, hiraman din yan ng suklay at mirror. Magdala daw ba kc ng
malaking cologne!!!hehehe She's our top one ang talino! Goodluck sa
lovelife,Always keep in touch ha!!!

From my HS classmate and barkada JP:

Si C na ata ang pinakamakulit na taong nakilala ko sa balat ng lupa!!! She's kind and cheerful and so daldal. Siya rin ang intsik na magaling mag- english at tagalog. C's a great friend and no one would ever says she's not. I think
sooner, she'll be the mastermind of crazy websites and viruses in the world
(hehehe!!!). Nway, goodluck and wag ka muna mag-aasawa ha!!! lovelots: Dark
Angel (Dangerous but charming!)

From my Elementary classmate and kalaro HMP:

si C?! hay naku parang ilang dekada na rin kame hindi nagkikita nitu..
schoolmate ko cya since elementary and naalala ko pa nga na 10/20 queen 'tong
babaeng 'to at gusto nga atang ka-reerin lahat ng laro (jackstones, jump rope,
etc.) parang punong-puno cya ng energy! hehe.. nakakamiss yung mga time na un
noh? nweis, sana magreunion tayung lahat para masaya and always keep in touch.
good luck and blessed be dear friend! muah :)

From my Elementary and HS classmate and friend CP:

Si C...classmates kami nyan since grade 3 until high school at isa lang ang masasabi ko,hanggang ngayon siya pa rin ang CS na classmate at kaibigan ko.di pa
rin siya nagbabago hanggang ngayon.very proud nga ako sa kanya kasi graduate na
siya ngayon so guys,kailangan e galingan nyo ang pagdiskarte sa kanya kasi may
maipagmamalaki na siya sa lahat ngayon.!!!alam mo nung nabasa ko yung testi mo
sa kin,naalala ko lahat ng mga memories natin noon.yung mga nilalaro natin every
recess time,after class,etc.nakalimutan mo yung larong moro-moro na kasama ang
boys.grabe nagflashback lahat sa kin yun.salamat sa lahat ng memories na yun.i
will cherish it forever.basta goodluck sa career mo ngayon, sa lovelife,tsaka
regards sa family mo.alam ko,napakarami mong kaibigan ngayon di lang sa
friendster kundi sa real world.napakafriendly mo tsaka lagi kang naka-smile

From my Elementary classmate and best friend YP:

my childhood days wouldn't be complete, sweet and memorable without C..grade 1 to grade 6 kasama ko to..sa service,sa fieldtrip,sa lahat ng kainan sa smcl,sa lahat..she has always been there to inspire me,cheer me up,make me laugh,teach me lessons in life,listen to my nonsense speeches..hindi namin malilimutan ang isa't isa..kahit si leo. hehe. those were the days: how we loved leo and sweet valley, how we enjoyed writing letters to each other, how we loved talking over the phone and just be in each other's company. at hanga ako rito, matapang to.
love you, C!

From my previous officemate and friend CB:

namimiss ko na tong babaeng to eh.!!! C girl.. dami na nagbago noh.. dami ko namimiss na gngwa natin.. mga kalokohan, kulitan.. haay ... thanks pla ha kht dna tyo lagi mgksama jn pa rin kyo lgi for me.. miss ko tlga bonding natin!!! loves you

From my grad school classmate WLC:

bout C, she's always have a word "hayaan mo sila.. wala akong pakialam" She is the CMMI girl of the troop. She's a good friend who you can depend on. Minsan topakin din. LAging busy with her work. She is one of the resource person in the troop. Always dress to kill tuwing saturday dahil laging me date. She'sexy and cute (libre moko ha?!..todo nato!)hehehe.. Thanks for everything C!

From my grad school classmate GA:

hay naku knowing her..masipag mag-research sa klase..nakikipag unahan sumagot kay Mhai sa klase..expression nito ay "ADIK" ewan ko ba sa batang ito..may katarayan din mana sa akin..hehehe..but enjoy akong kasama c C together with the chix joy group..sya nga ang nagbansag ng group namin...ingats lagi c..luv u

From my previous officemate and friend JP:

a.k.a COOKIE SUMUBO.. we've been friends for almost 2years.. i guess?!we were skulm8s way back in college but we never bcame close coz we had our own circle of friends. Thanks to.. wWow0WOMwoWOM!!! . at ngkakilala kmi ni cookie. Pg petiks mode s ofc, we alwayz hang out sa megamall, specifically!? c bestfriend CINDERELLA. We're both kikay but totally different in style and color combination. Favorite nya ang kulay PINK (db halata sa mga gamit nya!?). She loves to read that's why prti kming dmdaan ng booksale. ANd the bestpart of our friendship is... FOOD! every 2 hours, g2m nnmn.. no wonder, lhat ng nppsama smn e tumataba, namely... BOINK BOINK cherry! haha. Nbbansagan 2loy kming PG d2 s ofc, tga P&G.com dw kmi.I forgot to send this testi on the day of ur bday, sorry nlate. Belated Happy Birthday.. more con-cons to come, ay mali..birthdays pla! wink! Stay as PINK as you are ;) take care alwayz and dnt 4get to thank God for all the continuous blessings u receiving.

From my CS student AMC:

ammm...what can i say about this person...:) etong teacher kong to napakabait.///..:) magalng magturo tapos ang cute ng boses...hehehe...minsan tampuhin katulad ngayon...hehehe pero sweet to si maam...mapagkakatiwalaan pantay lang ang tingin niya sa teachers at students...hindi niya gusto bumabagsak ang mga students....hindi katulad ng iba na gusto talga bumagsak mga studyante nila...hehehe si maam ang secon ate ko sa school...kamukha siya ng ate ko...hehehe dati lagi kaming sabay umuwi...hehehe nanglilibre ng pamasahe...kakahiya nga eh....:) si maam sexy din, magandsa, matalino, cute, sweet, malambing, makulit, kalog, masarap kabiruan, masarap maging teacher, at napakabait....thats all folks...:)

From my Eng'g student NF:

Ms. S sobrang kulit niyn siya yung prof na sobarang lapit sa mga student niya.. well sa lahat cguro ng prof sa AMA cguro xa n yung pinaka magaling mkisama... magaling na mg2ro..mabait pa! san ka pa! hehehehehe mis na nmin 2 sobra!!!!!! sana bumalik na xa sa AMA binan ...;) hoping na mging prof uli namin xa..haaaaaaay.......sobarng nkakamis yung gni2ng prof....sna lahat ng prof gya ni2...pero sa tingin q "ur one of a kind!" mhirap ng humanap ng gni2ng prof.....swerte yung magiging kbiyak ng buhay ni2...n_n...hayyyyyyyyyyyyy...we miss you mam C.... bye!bye! inagtzzz po mplagi!

From my childhood friend JJL:

Ang cute mo pa rin hanggang ngayon. I remember when we're kids at El Dom's apartments every morning may sumpong ka. And you had so many toys. My brother and you always play. Every December we always have party with different games. You, the Bartolazo kids, Camela, R-Jay, and all the kids there in that neighborhood napakasaya. It seems yesterday lang. Take care and May God bless you and all your love ones. Ikamusta mo ulit ako sa family mo at kina Camela and R-Jay. Keep in touch!!!!! "L.Boogie"

Late Post on my Personal Reflections

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I am lazy in writing and posting notes in my secret blog. Sometimes when ideas and thoughts came to me, I always write them in MS Office OneNote or on my ever trusted journals. I have at least three journals, one is a small notebook stashed in my office drawer, the other two is kept in my closet in my apartment and in our house in Laguna. Sometimes, when I am reflecting, I just write anything that came on my mind, then if I am dead serious, I post them on my secret blog. Recently, I was checking my notes in MS Office OneNote when I came across my soooo late post on regarding on some 27 hard facts about myself which should be posted after my birthday last January. But since I got busy and got winded up on some personal matters during the last few months, I just forgot everything and let it sit on my files for a long time.

Here is my entry which should be posted last February 03, 2011.

My 27 years of knowing myself

1. I am daddy's little girl. My dad played an important role in my growing up years and I am always thankful on my dad.

2. I would really like going back to school as a part-time professor or trainor after finishing my graduate studies (ang tagal nang pending nito!)

3. I love clothes and shopping. I hate to admit that shopping is my therapeutic ways on cheering myself.

4. I don't mind being alone anymore. I can eat at restaurants alone, go to church and go to places I want to (like a mall)

5. I know I am a stronger person than before and I can conquer my fears. One step at a time.

6. I discovered I have a daredevil side in me. This year alone I tried the longest zipline in Bukidnon and rode Battlestar Galactica while in Universal Studios Singapore :)

7. I love shoes… and just like shopping, I really hate to admit that when I like a pair of shoes, it was like heaven purchasing them

8. I want to become a psychologist before. But now, I ventured into the wonderful world of Information Technology. Never regret pursuing my current career. :P

9. I am a hopeless romantic. I get kilig while watching or reading love stories or romantic comedies

10. I love books and it is one my biggest hobby: Buying and collecting books.

11. I hate being ignored or rejected

12. I always dream of going to Europe :)

13. I have proven to myself that I am capable of doing things by myself and not depending on others

14. I have playful and funny side but mostly I can be serious when it comes to serious matters

15. My mom used to tell me that I think ahead of my age. Maybe because I went to school early and most of my friends are older than me.

16. My favorite sanctuary is quaint little chapels. It helps me think and see myself in perspective

17. I don't know how to swim and got a near death experience while in Puerto Galera, but I still love to hang out at beaches :). The sound of the sea waves calm me.

18. I was 26 years old when the peak of my crossroads started

19. Music is part of my life. I can't work or think without any music playing in the background

20. I always dream of having a vacation house in our province. Another reason for me to visit my favorite place every year or if time permits

21. I hate being out of my comfort zone. I believe this also applies to my love life. That is one of the reason why most of my relationships are long-term and even if there are some serious issues or matters, I still try my best to fix it even if my closest friends advises me to run to the other side :P

22. I always had a hard time coping up with changes. Especially those situations that are unexpected and painful

23. I can be patient for those people I cared for but once provoked I do have one big, bad temper

24. I hate riding in boats especially cute little boats on choppy seas :P

25. I love wholeheartedly. And when I love someone, I give everything I can offer. This applies to friends and loved ones.

26. Sometimes on my crazy days, I dream of becoming flight stewardess, psychologist, ambassador, news correspondent, chef in Lifestyle Network (like Giada de Laurentiis) and travel journalist :)

27. I am self centered and vain. In short, kikay at maarte :P. But even though I am maarte and kikay, I can blend in perfectly in the crowd. (sige defend pa ang sarili)

From: theentrepreneurincebu.com

Changes...

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Time flies when you're having fun. Haven't been able to write on my secret blog. Been busy on doing a lot of stuff lately and there are so many changes around me. They always say that "Change is constant and inevitable". I must agree, that changes cannot be controlled or stopped. It just happens. It's best to accept the changes and make those changes beneficial to you. I must admit I am the type of person who doesn't like constant changes. It would take me a long time to recover or adjust. Whether this pertains to person or things, I always have a hard time letting go or adjusting. I guess some situations in life makes you tougher and happier. So I guess changes is just an opportunity for us to see things more clearly, better and make most out of it :)

For the past few months there are so many things that changed:

1. My original office barkada/group is disbanded. Most of them already transferred to a new company, kinda sad to think but I know its for the best. I still thank God since He never left me alone. I found new office friends, who keep me smiling and happy everyday :)

2. There are so many happenings in the office since January 2011, good and bad news, I know we will get by.

3. For the past 5 years I've been working, this is just the first time that my after-office activities are in full-swing. I have weekly schedule of jogging and badminton sessions with my officemates and friends. Sometimes we even get out and have fun doing lots of stuff outside the office. I am really enjoying :)

4. There may be people who left you and get out of your life but there are always new found friends. New found friends is one blessing in my life right now :)

5. I realized that I am stronger than before. I know I still cry at my sad moments, but I know in myself I can fight back and be happier in life.

6. It is beneficial to pray and reflect. Prayers can provide hope and reflections help you to become optimistic.

7. I realized its time to try things that I am afraid to face. That started when I rode roller coaster in SG and tried the longest zipline in Bukidnon. It feels good to conquer fear. I am looking for more adventure trips in the future

8. I didn't know the reason why my friend does ignore me. Can't seem to find reason why, but I just let it pass. After all, real friends are always there for you and new friends kept me sane

9. Live and let go. If it doesn't make you happy, let go. Be happy on the other blessings you receive

10. Lives around me changed. I had friends who recently got engaged, married and had a baby. Me, I am still single as ever and happy fullfilling all my travel plans ;)

Sadness - Emotera Posts for the nth Time

During February 1st, I posted a status on my Facebook wall that I shouldn't be sad, angry, depressed and bitter. And I am trying naman. I may be experiencing some low downs but I get to manage it and be happy even just for a while… will post some of my February trips next time! Promise ang mahal ma-depress ha, because it is the only outlet you had and all you had in mind is to get away for a while and think things a lot.

While searching in the Net regarding on the instructions or guides on requirements management document (the one document that made my nose bleed), I accidentally googled ways to overcome depression and sadness… Applicable talaga sakin ang tip na ito…Dahil naman kasi naghahanap din ako. Ayoko na rin maging emotera at pathetic sa mga friends ko kahit 100++ times na nila akong sinasabihan na mag-move on na. I need to divert my attention to different things and try to be happy on my own ways. It may be harder than expected but I know I can surpass this loneliness. Don't ask me why I am sad this January and February, I think this is the major crossroad I had in my 27 years of existence. I've experience fair share of heartbreaks before but this time it took a dangerous toll on me. Everything was thrown off into different directions and confusions came in spiraling down on me.

Ok enough of my melodramatics… I would like to share this article to those people who are currently experiencing same feelings I had right now… how to move on and heal a wound. Overcome sadness and depression.

According to Alex Shalman, the one who wrote this article on website: http://www.dumblittleman.com/2009/03/10-simple-ways-to-overcome-depression.html

Here are some 10 simple ways to overcome sadness without any happy pills

1. Set Goals
Something special happens the moment the paper meets the pen and we write down our goals. Our brain chemistry changes, neurons fire, hormones are deployed, and we start thinking about how we can achieve those goals.

2. Sleep
Getting the right amount of sleep is healthy for our body and mind. Some argue that sleep deprivation treats depression, but I don't buy it. I think it's a cheap distraction that catches up to you within days. Get enough rest.

3. Exercise
If you're physically capable, try one hour of cardio (or as much as you can). If you're tee-shirt is soaking wet, you're standing in a puddle of your own sweat, and you can feel the endorphins pumping through your body, you did it right. Shower up and try not being happy, I dare you.

4. Forgiveness
Many times we're making ourselves sad for no good reason at all. People have been known to keep grudges for lifetimes (most religions and nationalities keep them for generations). When you forgive, you remove this weight off your shoulders and put yourself in a position to be happier.

5. Gratitude
Many times when we complain we can cause ourselves to be sad. Complaining is just a factor of not taking into account what we're grateful for. Sit down and make a list of 100 things you're grateful for right now (and I dare you not to feel better).

6. Sunlight
Certain people have a disorder, in which, due to a lack of sunlight, they experience seasonal sadness. I'm somewhat affected by this in the winter when the days are shorter. That's why it pays to grab your iPod (or your friend) and go for 30 minute walks each day and embrace the sunlight.

7. Hydration
This has always been my downfall; I don't drink enough and chances are you don't either. Some days I drink only 1 cup of water, and I feel horrible. When I remember, and drink 2-3 liters, I'm happy as a kitten on cat-nip, and productive as a bat out of hell.

8. Friendships
Your life force, support system, and everything that matters. It's not hard to make friends if you put the time in. Everyone wants to be heard, appreciated, and loved. Start off by listening, appreciating and loving, and it will come back your way.

9. Reading
Take a temporary leave from reality and bury yourself in one of your favorite books. A lot of wise people have been through what you're going through and they made it through to the other side to tell about it.

10. Journal
This could be an escape but it doesn't have to be. You can write about fiction, and transport yourself to another world, or you can write about what's going on, and let your thoughts carry you through to a solution. Many great books were written by people who were, at least at the time, going through a period of pain and suffering.

27 Years of Lessons Learned

Lessons you just learned along the way… for twenty-seven years

Last two weeks ago, I celebrated my birthday in our province and done the Eat and Pray mission. Just to reflect and realize what are the things I learned for 27 years of my life, here are my 27 list of my lessons learned in life and love…

Take note this is my own list. Something I came up while reflecting and travelling in the province. Something I learned based on my experiences and words of wisdom from different people.

1. There is no permanent thing here on earth. Change is always occurring and constant

2. When you love someone be prepared to get hurt.

3. Make sure that you always have a backups when plans fail

4. It is always better to have alone days without your significant other. It is another way of finding yourself without losing everything to your relationship or losing your inner self

5. Love is not the answer for getting married. Sometimes it is just the part why we want to get marry but at the end of the day it is for other reasons aside from love

6. Do good deeds and it will be back in two folds. Do bad deeds and it will come back in three folds

7. When in a relationship it is still important to have your own individuality and not depending on your partner, because if the relationship fail, you will all end up broken into pieces

8. Life's success is not about on the destination but the journey you had before reaching your destination

9. Do not trust everybody. There are always snakes sneaking up past to you

10. Be the best whatever you are.

11. Do not listen on what other people are thinking of you.

12. You are the master of your fate and the captain of your soul. At the end of the day, whatever choices or decisions you made, it is always up to you. You cannot blame other people for your misfortunes or mistakes

13. True friends are always there no matter what circumstances happen. They know when to cheer you up or cry with you when situations arises.

14. Life is short so remember to embrace it with happiness and contentment

15. Faith will keep us stronger

16. Be humble no matter what status you have achieved in your life

17. Sadness is part of your life and it's not bad to feel sad sometimes but don't fall into the trap of always being sad or depress

18. Do not be affected on criticisms especially if its coming from person who doesn't know you. Why waste your time on their silly thoughts, after all they are not God to judge you.

19. Be happy if you can. Do not waste your life and time on people who doesn't want or deserve you.

20. You can have a few days of bliss, then comes the hell… and then try to get the best of situation. Like my Dad always says, failure is a blessing in disguise

21. Everything happens for a reason

22. Cry if you need to release the pent-up anger

23. Be angry and sad for a while then move on

24. Write all your thoughts, it helps to pour out emotions. Writings is best when emotions are included in the deep words and thoughts

25. Spend time on occasional readings and studying. Not only it is a hobby but helps you improve yourself.

26. Do not waste your time on people who doesn't want you. If you already reached out and tried your best to mend things and they do not reciprocate then its time to move on and live happily without them

27. Whatever current state you are in, be grateful for all the blessings the Lord is showering you. You might be having problems with your relationship but be thankful for a great career and family and friends around you. After all, they are the reason for you to move on and live life to the fullest

High School Super Friends!

Been writing too long in my secret blog and yet I haven't mentioned my two closest friends in high school. They say high school friends are the ones who are the most unforgettable. Maybe because they were the ones who shared your heartbreaks, crushes, triumphs and dreams way back then (when you think life in high school is easy and carefree). For me they are the ones that even we haven't seen each other for quite some time, the bonding and the friendship remains. Whenever somebody is down or inspired, they are the ones who cheer you up and make your day.

Recently, I was down with mild depression. Blame it on quarter-life crisis but this is the turning point that I can't seem to find any direction in my life. Last year I got my goal of being able to meet my target salary for my job but turns out that the bargain is that my lovelife became a mess. Then everything went spiraling down on me. If it weren't for my friends I wouldn't be able to cope up (this also goes to my closest college friends, colleagues at work and former friends at the faculty). They were tirelessly listening to my rants, my sadness, the gory details of my sordid state and my never ending punch lines that even while I am crying I am still laughing with them. Sounds crazy but that's how me and my high school friends work when solving someone's problem. It even went to a point that one of my friend had to skipped her filed OT just to make sure I was OK and my other friend cancelled her manicure and pedicure session at the salon just to meet us up. Might be shallow for some but their gestures are really sweet. I remembered my Dad once talked to me about my high school friends. He told me to treasure my friendship with them because they are truest friends I ever had. We've been through a lot of ordeals in the past and for all the triumphs and heartbreaks we are still together.

Just to give you an brief background how the three of us became close friends over the years let's start with LP :)

LP - we've been classmates since elementary and our start as classmates is another story. We had a fight when we were grade 1 and our mothers came in the middle to resolve the issue. I must admit even when I was a little kid I'm a bit of a bully. :P LP and I were classmates for years but we had different set of groups and friends during those times. We became totally close during our fourth year high school. Both of us were very disappointed when we were separated from our group of friends because of re-shuffling of sections during our last year in high school. The two of us were included in the new section and since we are familiar with each other and classmates since elementary we easily bonded together. It all started out as hanging together during class breaks and checking out each other assignments. Then we became close when she encountered problems with her bestfriend and she needed someone to confide to. There are so many things that I won't forget with LP starting on our high school days and up to the present:

○ Writing letters to each other - just to cheer each other or just ranting :D

○ Days when we just want to hang out at their house. Their house is the most accessible place to our school and whenever we need to chill out or just talk about nonsense stuff we just go in their place. It is also our favorite location during class project, school play practice and cut class when we don't feel like attending our subject :)

○ Our super nerve-wracking cheating incident during our prelim exam. Our adviser distributed our test papers into different subjects just to discourage us from cheating. But we, the ever pasaways, still got ways to swap test papers. LP studied Algebra, so I exchanged my paper with her and she gave me her test paper in Religion since I was the one well-versed with the old testament books in Bible. We were almost got caught since we also need to exchange our pens because we are using different color of ink :P Hayyy!

○ Singing with our group during class breaks

○ Our cutting-classes galore. Especially during CAT days. We hate that subject! Diskarte to the highest level talaga!

○ Our favorite mango tree hangout after lunch at the back of our school library

○ LP always had this weird intuition about me when I'm having problems. Even during our HS days she knows if I'm hiding something from her. Whether it would be problems on school, job, lovelife or parents, she knows something is up.

○ We always have the same crushes but we never got into a fight. Haha. Parang tuwang-tuwa lang kami na kiligin while watching our crushes :P

○ LP was the one who helped me during our fourth year field trip to Subic. I was having my motion-sickness problem that time and she was the one patiently assisting me. Grabe, super appreciate ko yun nung high school. It spoiled our field trip experience since I was not feeling well and we were buddies so she had no choice but to help me.

○ Our 2nd term line up in top ten. Who would have thought being friends pati sa line-up ng top ten sa class magkasunod pa rin kami??? Haha

○ Our screaming fits when seeing each other. Haha. Especially pag sobrang tagal na namin nagkita ayan na!

○ Our Sound of Music play. I was the scriptwriter / producer and LP is the director :)

○ Never fails to give birthday surprises

○ LP always fetch us when she just feels like going somewhere (especially now that she has her own cars to fetch us)

○ Our always free lunch and dinner at Leslies resto. :)

○ She gave me the copy of her diary during high school days that are still in my safekeeping :)

IL - about IL she's the eldest among our group. That is why we fondly call her "Mommy". Even our relatives and friends used to call her "Mommy". Haha! She's my classmate since 2nd year high school but we were never that close. It's because she had different set of friends just like me and LP. Same story with LP, we became close during fourth year high school. At first glance, IL looked serious and the silent type. But once she get so comfortable with you, the stories, the jokes and the punch lines will begin to pour in. IL likes to write letters to us and even it's been 10 years since our high school graduation, she always manage to send us letters once in a while. LP and IL's letters are my stress reliever. It always make me laugh when I'm on my down times. She likes to dance and sing. Their house is also our favorite hang out because of the huge fields near them. My favorite memories of IL are:

○ When she agreed to star as "Maria" in our Sound of Music Play

○ Her being very supportive of us. I remembered one of her letters saying "Ipaglalaban ko pagiging top 1 mo sa class because you really deserve it!". Super touched ako nun kay IL.

○ She used to be my officemate at our first job in Alabang. Even if its not yet breaktime we always manage to sneak out going to Mcdonald's in Alabang Town Center just to talk and air out our frustrations at work.

○ She likes to collect song hits and teddy bears

○ Me, IL and LP eating halo-halo and banana-que in LP's house in Binan

○ Our Makati and Alabang escapades while applying for a job after college graduation. She always comments I walked too fast and likes to do the short cuts by passing to different basements of buildings across Ayala Avenue.

○ IL always manages to make me laugh even while I'm crying. It's because of her crazy comments and antics.

○ Very strong person despite the fact that their mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease

○ Me and IL going home together since we are on the same route during high school

○ Going to our house just to talk about college life and how we cope up together growing up

○ She's always concern on the state of my lovelife and never fails to gives advise just like LP. Laging may group hug!

○ Cried with me when she found out that my SO does not have any plans for us

○ Skipped going to the office just to hang out with us. Kami na talaga ang good influence sa friend namin!

○ Endured almost 48 hours lack of sleep going to Iloilo with us. Haha. Adik kung adik lang

○ Once filed SL just to join us on our spontaneous road trip




To LP and IL, you are one of my treasured friends. I super appreciate our talks, bondings, food trips and road trips (isama pa dyan ang out of town trips!). It's been ten years and we never ran out of things and people to discuss. I am always thankful that I have you in my life. Thank you for listening and advising. You girls never failed to make me laugh and cry at the same time. Your friendship is a constant reminder that despite the fact I have troubles I know I can survive. I am always looking forward for more trips in the future and growing up with you (ayoko ng growing old eh). We never get tired of listening to each other stories even those stories were told a hundred times. We never fail to laugh at our mistakes and it really feels good to have you in my life. You are the sweetest blessings in my life.

After My Eat, Pray, Love Drama...

Five days is not enough for me... I think I still need some time but since I only have limited vacation leaves, I just need to enjoy my vacation to the fullest.

I really enjoyed watching Kasadyahan and Dinagyang Festival last January 22 and 23. It was my first time to experience the colorful, lively and happy gathering of Ilonggos in the city streets. The great mood is infectious and it was really a great experience. I did enjoyed eating various authentic Ilonggo foods on the street. For a moment I was sooo happy and carefree not even thinking what kind of dilemmas I left here in Manila. For me having the five-day vacation helped me realized that we only lived once and we need to live life to the fullest. I don't care what current state of my lovelife I'm in, all I wanted is to be carefree and happy. It also made me realized I have live my life before as a happy single person and surrounded by great friends. I believe whatever problems I am having right now with my relationships I can survive it.

Also, going to favorite places in my hometown helped me see my perspective. I know in myself I always go for what I want and need to achieve. I need to be positive about my future because nobody can decide it for me but myself. If there are still bittersweet memories or pains that I am remembering or feeling I know I will get by. It's no easy task to let go, forget and move on but I know I can manage it well.

Buti nalang I have one good friend from my previous job who gave me these words of wisdom that I really do appreciate:

Just seek God. Minsan dumadaan tayo sa magulo for us to realize what's valuable and what is our value. I pray you will know the right thing to do and the right to do what is right. Things happen for your good. And at the end of it all you will see that. Go, go, go!

I sought the Lord and he heard me and delivered me from all of my fears, Psalm 34:4

Here are some of the snapshots of my Eat and Pray version... Yung Love kasi wala eh... :P

My Suuuuuppppeeeerrrr Late December Post

December 2010 is the busiest months for me. There are so many memorable happenings but also one of the most stressful month in my year. I should have different entries for each but I am too lazy to wrote every details so here are some of the highlights of my happy and sad December.

1st Week of December:

Went to Legaspi and Naga with my office ka-berks. The usual gang invade the Bicol region during December 3 and 4. AM, RS, JG and I were having a blast site seeing the beautiful Mount Mayon and visiting the Camarines Sur Sports Complex. Also I would really like to extend my warm thanks for AM and her family for accommodating us in her grandparent's house for an overnight stay. :)








2nd Week of December:

JG and I toured the UP Diliman campus and he was really glad to show me around his college Alma Mater. Actually it was an unplanned Saturday gala since he had a get together with his HS best friends later in the evening. The UP Diliman sidetrip happened because he invited me to try Banapple restaurant in Katipunan. It all started while we were having dessert at Pizza Hut in the Fort a week earlier. He recommended to me that Banapple's Banoffee pie is delicious and affordable so we decided to try it one weekend. (I need to ask for the pics of the delicious lunch we had at Banapple)

3rd Week of December:

- Preparations for our Christmas Party. I was sooo stressed looking for a Hawaiian costume for the party. We are required to wear Hawaiian costume since our party will be held at Mandarin Poolside. We also had an unexpected win for our Hyperglee Christmas party performance. This was also the week where our good friend MR leave the Philippines to join her future husband in Singapore.



A Week Before Christmas:

I find this the most magical week before Christmas. This week was full of dinners and get together with friends. I was strolling with a good friend around Greenbelt and Bonifacio High Street during the evenings and had great dinner conversations. December 24, proven to be stressful one but came out as the memorable day of my year. I won't say so much details but I had a wonderful time cruising Ortigas Center before the Christmas day with a friend... But come December 25 that is another story... :(


Last Week Before New Year:

This is my hell week and will continuously provide my suffering. No more, no less. I won't put the gory details because I want to forget everything and as much as possible keep an open mind about the whole thing...

Lazy...

I have so many stories and improvements to tell.... but I am too lazy to write into the sordid details.

My planned entries are:

- Our Tagaytay / Nuvali Trip Part 1
- Our Nuvali Trip Part 2
- Our Harry Potter Movie Trip
- My weekend getaway with my HS bestfriends
- And of course my Tatay Dolphs

For now let me sink into the space so I can put my pen again into writing... soooo tamad talaga.

Before I finished this pampadami entry... I just remembered it was my Lolo Dolpo's birthday.

Lolo Dolpo, I know you don't know this blog exist but I would really like to greet you a Blessed Happy Birthday, wish you more fruitful life so that I can spend more time with you especially if I'm going to visit Iloilo again. :)

I always miss you and you are one of the best LOLO in the world. Thank you for the smiles and the stories way back when I was a little kid. I still remember the younger days when we used to feed your hoards of dogs in the backyard and made bamboo swords for each of your apos to play with. I also remember when you play football and baseball with us in the fields and the aswang-hunting stories during full moon in the ricefields. I can still recall the way I hug you when you fetch us from the airport or pier. You would really laugh so dearly when I jump high just trying to hug and made "mano".

Nakaka-miss ka talaga Tatay!!! My childhood days wouldn't be complete without the cool memories with you and Iloilo :)

Something to Think About when Taking the BIG PLUNGE!

I just read this from my ever trusting planner Belle de Jour regarding on when is the right time to settle down. I must say it was something to think about since this is the time where you are surrounded by people who are planning for their wedding, going to marry and baptize their kids. It also made me realize that I need to enjoy my single-blessedness and spend some alone time. It also grants me to become independent. I used to say that before I get marry I want to make sure that I have achieved most of my goals and I have done something for myself. So just in case I'm going to commit myself into starting a new family, I have established my own self.

Here are the checklist before we girls take the BIG PLUNGE! (taken from BDJ planner)

1. Travel on your own.
Once you get married and have kids, it'll be hard to create down time for yourself. While you're still single, take pride in fact that you've managed superbly on your own and reward yourself by travelling. It may seem scary at first, but the thrill of embarking on a solo adventure will definitely boost your pride and ego. Travel to an exotic locale, go on a lone road trip, sneak off to the beach… the possibilities are endless!

2. Paint the town red
Again, with marriage comes lots of responsibilities. Relish your singlehood by going out with your amigas without having to inform anyone (except your parents perhaps?) about your whereabouts. Revel in the fact that you don't need to get permission or approval from anyone - and that you can actually talk to guys and pissingly drunk without guilt!

3. Live on your own
Most Pinay bellas only get to live "independently" when they marry. Jump the gun and have a try before getting hitched. We bet you'll be a domesticated goddess in no time, since you'll learn how to cook, clean and do your own laundry with help from a maid or parents.

4. Have a savings account that's entirely yours and yours alone.
When you get married, it's inevitable that you'll have a joint savings account with your husband. For the sake of self-preservation and self-protection, keep a savings account that solely yours. That way, money won't cause too much marital conflict. You get to share something of your own. At the very least, learn how to manage your finances before getting married, so you won't feel so shackled to or dependent on your husband for your subsistence.

5. Established a strong support system
It's true what they say: Being a married woman is vastly different from being a single sistah. You now have somebody to be accountable for and therefore, have less "me" time. That's why it is important to set up a strong circle of friends who will be there for you, for better or for worse. These friends will understand that you will have to spend less time with them once you get married. Now that's what real friendship is all about.

6. Experience a broken heart
Every gal needs to go through that heart-wrenching experience to prepare her for when she finally meets - and marries Mr. Right. It will prepare you emotionally for your next relationship, and surviving (and thriving) after a heartbreak makes you more mature than you'll ever be. Mistakes and heartbreaks truly make one stronger - and wiser.

7. Walk around the house or in your room naked (IF YOU ARE ALONE IN THE HOUSE)
That's the only moment you can do it without anyone thinking that you've lost your sanity. (Just think of the kids that will follow)

8. Know Yourself
It might sound cliché but it's true. Know what makes you happy, what keeps your sanity in check, what activities and hobbies you personally enjoy during your "me" time. Cherish all of them while you're still single. And when you get married, make sure you still have "me" time (albeit not as frequently) to keep grounded.

9. Enjoy feasting on pizza by yourself
Every bella should experience pigging out without worrying about others will think. Toss in a couple of drinks and fave DVDs and veg the night (or weekend) away!