Changes...

From: kathymccreedy.typepad.com

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Time flies when you're having fun. Haven't been able to write on my secret blog. Been busy on doing a lot of stuff lately and there are so many changes around me. They always say that "Change is constant and inevitable". I must agree, that changes cannot be controlled or stopped. It just happens. It's best to accept the changes and make those changes beneficial to you. I must admit I am the type of person who doesn't like constant changes. It would take me a long time to recover or adjust. Whether this pertains to person or things, I always have a hard time letting go or adjusting. I guess some situations in life makes you tougher and happier. So I guess changes is just an opportunity for us to see things more clearly, better and make most out of it :)

For the past few months there are so many things that changed:

1. My original office barkada/group is disbanded. Most of them already transferred to a new company, kinda sad to think but I know its for the best. I still thank God since He never left me alone. I found new office friends, who keep me smiling and happy everyday :)

2. There are so many happenings in the office since January 2011, good and bad news, I know we will get by.

3. For the past 5 years I've been working, this is just the first time that my after-office activities are in full-swing. I have weekly schedule of jogging and badminton sessions with my officemates and friends. Sometimes we even get out and have fun doing lots of stuff outside the office. I am really enjoying :)

4. There may be people who left you and get out of your life but there are always new found friends. New found friends is one blessing in my life right now :)

5. I realized that I am stronger than before. I know I still cry at my sad moments, but I know in myself I can fight back and be happier in life.

6. It is beneficial to pray and reflect. Prayers can provide hope and reflections help you to become optimistic.

7. I realized its time to try things that I am afraid to face. That started when I rode roller coaster in SG and tried the longest zipline in Bukidnon. It feels good to conquer fear. I am looking for more adventure trips in the future

8. I didn't know the reason why my friend does ignore me. Can't seem to find reason why, but I just let it pass. After all, real friends are always there for you and new friends kept me sane

9. Live and let go. If it doesn't make you happy, let go. Be happy on the other blessings you receive

10. Lives around me changed. I had friends who recently got engaged, married and had a baby. Me, I am still single as ever and happy fullfilling all my travel plans ;)